Some time later two prostitutes came to the king to have an argument settled. “Please, my lord,” one of them began, “this woman and I live in the same house. I gave birth to a baby while she was with me in the house. Three days later this woman also had a baby. We were alone; there were only two of us in the house. “But her baby died during the night when she rolled over on it. Then she got up in the night and took my son from beside me while I was asleep. She laid her dead child in my arms and took mine to sleep beside her. And in the morning when I tried to nurse my son, he was dead! But when I looked more closely in the morning light, I saw that it wasn’t my son at all.” Then the other woman interrupted, “It certainly was your son, and the living child is mine.” “No,” the first woman said, “the living child is mine, and the dead one is yours.” And so they argued back and forth before the king. Then the king said, “Let’s get the facts straight. Both of you claim the living child is yours, and each says that the dead one belongs to the other. All right, bring me a sword.” So a sword was brought to the king. Then he said, “Cut the living child in two, and give half to one woman and half to the other!” Then the woman who was the real mother of the living child, and who loved him very much, cried out, “Oh no, my lord! Give her the child—please do not kill him!” But the other woman said, “All right, he will be neither yours nor mine; divide him between us!” Then the king said, “Do not kill the child, but give him to the woman who wants him to live, for she is his mother!” When all Israel heard the king’s decision, the people were in awe of the king, for they saw the wisdom God had given him for rendering justice.
1 Kings 3:16-28
Dear God, “”discernment” and “understanding.” Those were the words that described what Solomon asked you for from you. To be able to assess a situation and see beyond the surface. To be able to play the tape to the end and see all of the dominoes one decision or action will knock over.
In this case, Solomon had two people, both of whom whose character we would tend to question because they were prostitutes and it was a she said/she said situation. So how as he to look beyond the words he was hearing and into their hearts? How was he to discern and understand what the truth was from the lie that one of them was telling? Well, he obviously found an ingenious way to reveal what was in their respective hearts.
As someone who has interviewed a lot of people for positions over the years, getting beyond their words (and the words of their references) and a look inside their hearts is very difficult. It’s a nut I’m still trying to crack. And then there are the disputes between patients and our staff and even among the staff themselves that I am sometimes asked to referee. I must confess, I hardly ever seek your wisdom during these times as much as I should.
Father, please give me good discernment and understanding. That includes how I see family members, friends, our community, our nation, and our world. Help me to routinely ask you and the Holy Spirit for help and counsel. Help me to hear your still, small voice at any given moment.
In Jesus’s name I pray,