8 One day Elisha went on to Shunem, where a wealthy woman lived, who urged him to eat some food. So whenever he passed that way, he would turn in there to eat food. 9 And she said to her husband, “Behold now, I know that this is a holy man of God who is continually passing our way. 10 Let us make a small room on the roof with walls and put there for him a bed, a table, a chair, and a lamp, so that whenever he comes to us, he can go in there.”
11 One day he came there, and he turned into the chamber and rested there. 12 And he said to Gehazi his servant, “Call this Shunammite.” When he had called her, she stood before him. 13 And he said to him, “Say now to her, ‘See, you have taken all this trouble for us; what is to be done for you? Would you have a word spoken on your behalf to the king or to the commander of the army?’” She answered, “I dwell among my own people.” 14 And he said, “What then is to be done for her?” Gehazi answered, “Well, she has no son, and her husband is old.” 15 He said, “Call her.” And when he had called her, she stood in the doorway. 16 And he said, “At this season, about this time next year, you shall embrace a son.” And she said, “No, my lord, O man of God; do not lie to your servant.” 17 But the woman conceived, and she bore a son about that time the following spring, as Elisha had said to her.
18 When the child had grown, he went out one day to his father among the reapers. 19 And he said to his father, “Oh, my head, my head!” The father said to his servant, “Carry him to his mother.” 20 And when he had lifted him and brought him to his mother, the child sat on her lap till noon, and then he died. 21 And she went up and laid him on the bed of the man of God and shut the door behind him and went out. 22 Then she called to her husband and said, “Send me one of the servants and one of the donkeys, that I may quickly go to the man of God and come back again.” 23 And he said, “Why will you go to him today? It is neither new moon nor Sabbath.” She said, “All is well.” 24 Then she saddled the donkey, and she said to her servant, “Urge the animal on; do not slacken the pace for me unless I tell you.” 25 So she set out and came to the man of God at Mount Carmel.
When the man of God saw her coming, he said to Gehazi his servant, “Look, there is the Shunammite. 26 Run at once to meet her and say to her, ‘Is all well with you? Is all well with your husband? Is all well with the child?’” And she answered, “All is well.” 27 And when she came to the mountain to the man of God, she caught hold of his feet. And Gehazi came to push her away. But the man of God said, “Leave her alone, for she is in bitter distress, and the Lord has hidden it from me and has not told me.” 28 Then she said, “Did I ask my lord for a son? Did I not say, ‘Do not deceive me?’” 29 He said to Gehazi, “Tie up your garment and take my staff in your hand and go. If you meet anyone, do not greet him, and if anyone greets you, do not reply. And lay my staff on the face of the child.” 30 Then the mother of the child said, “As the Lord lives and as you yourself live, I will not leave you.” So he arose and followed her. 31 Gehazi went on ahead and laid the staff on the face of the child, but there was no sound or sign of life. Therefore he returned to meet him and told him, “The child has not awakened.”
32 When Elisha came into the house, he saw the child lying dead on his bed. 33 So he went in and shut the door behind the two of them and prayed to the Lord. 34 Then he went up and lay on the child, putting his mouth on his mouth, his eyes on his eyes, and his hands on his hands. And as he stretched himself upon him, the flesh of the child became warm. 35 Then he got up again and walked once back and forth in the house, and went up and stretched himself upon him. The child sneezed seven times, and the child opened his eyes. 36 Then he summoned Gehazi and said, “Call this Shunammite.” So he called her. And when she came to him, he said, “Pick up your son.” 37 She came and fell at his feet, bowing to the ground. Then she picked up her son and went out.
2 Kings 4:8-37
Dear God, this is an interesting story. It’s interesting because it happened. It’s interesting because it happened the way it happened (a child was given as a “gift”–I suppose–to a couple that didn’t ask for him dies and then is resurrected). It is also interesting because it was recorded for us to know these thousands of years later. Why?
As I’ve thought about this since this morning when I first read it, I think the idea I’ve finally come to is that you used this child in the lives of this couple the same way you use children for parent or person who raises them. You change them through this child. In this case, I think even Elisha didn’t know what you were up to. Gehazi didn’t either. They thought they were giving her and her husband a child. This wonderful gift of joy and love. What they were really doing was giving this couple the gift of refinement. You used this child to refine them and make them even more your children. You also used it to impact Elisha’s life as well. This child changed everyone he touched. I guess every child does to some extent or another.
I had lunch just two days ago with a dear man who lost his 11-year-old girl to leukemia just 10 months ago. It’s tragic. He commented that it was easier to go through the strain of fighting the leukemia than it is to endure this loss. This man and his wife are people are great faith. They love you. What could possibly come from this?
Then there’s the mourning process. I go back to the Garth Brooks song “The Dance” that I’ve talked about a few times with you before. I still can’t hear that song without tears coming to my eyes.
The chorus is actually in the thumbnail of the YouTube video I just linked to. It says it all. If they’d have known the pain in store for them with this child, they might have been tempted to avoid it. To not experience it. But if they’d have missed that opportunity, they’d have missed “the dance” they had with their little girl.
I’ve sung this song for myself over pain I’ve experienced. Nothing like theirs. Nothing even close. But I’ve had pain that I would love to have removed. This pain still stays with me every day. But I’m glad I never had the chance to even consider making the decision about whether or not to avoid the path that brought me here because that path shaped me in its good times, and it is shaping me now. The question is, how will I move forward and enable that pain to shape me even now?
Father, I wish I could take my friend and his wife’s pain away. All I know to pray now is that, if this pain must be experienced, then please make it count. It hurts too much for it to be wasted. This much pain should somehow, ultimately, maybe even in ways they will never see, produce some kind of way for your kingdom to come and your will to be done on this earth as it is in heaven. Holy Spirit, please sit close this couple, even in this very moment. Help them to feel the Spirit of the Lord. Help them to feel you in your role as counselor, comforter, and even healer. Flow through them into their children. Flow through them into this world that seems intent on running from you. And do the same for my wife and me. Don’t let our pain be wasted. Don’t let the pain the ones we love are experiencing be wasted either. Oh, Lord. My heart is heavy for me, but it is heavier right now for this couple. Holy Spirit, like I prayed for the couple in our town who lost their son to suicide a few months ago, please moan for us in words that are too deep for understanding. Pray for us to the Father. Jesus, touch this couple. Fill them with your peace.
I pray all of this through the grace of Jesus and with the power of the Holy Spirit,
Amen